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Hi everyone! :)
My name is Charlotte.
I live in Denmark.
I love reading, going for long walks in the sun, being creative(even though I am the least creative person you will ever meet) and cooking/baking.
I'm recovering from an eating disorder and trying to recover from other mental illnesses.
I'm choosing life.

Hello friends!

There are currently 1557 messages in my inbox. 
Most of them were asked 3+ months ago and I’m just going to assume that if you haven’t already asked someone else, you have probably given up on me answering it.
I know I said I would go back and answer questions every now and then until I emptied my inbox. I now realize how crazy ambitious that was.
I’m here to tell you that I won’t.
And I’m terribly sorry if you are still waiting for a reply because it will not come.
UNLESS
It is a private message not asking for advice. If you have sent me a sweet message I will reply to it, I promise.
And I will keep all of the sweet anon messages in my inbox as well. Maybe I will answer those, I don’t really know.
But all other messages will be deleted. 
When I am done I will write a long post to put a final end to this blog.

You are still more than welcome to follow my other blog and ask any questions you want(but please read my FAQ first) and/or my instagram.

I love you guys.
- Charlotte

— 2 weeks ago with 4 notes
#personal  #moving on for real this time  #wow 
About to go see my friend.
I like my hair tonight.
I found this shirt today and I wasn’t expecting it to fit but it does so that’s nice.
Well this was random. Hope you have a great night/day!
#vegan

About to go see my friend.
I like my hair tonight.
I found this shirt today and I wasn’t expecting it to fit but it does so that’s nice.
Well this was random. Hope you have a great night/day!
#vegan

— 1 month ago with 48 notes
#vegan 
Anonymous asked: So I've been struggling with weight gain because yes I've upped my calories but I find I can only stick to healthy foods such as fruit, veggies, granola bars... How did you gain weight successfully?! Did you also have unhealthy food? I want a bowl of cereal but I can't because I find there's too much added sugar, so what do I do? I want to gain weight but don't like having donuts and bagels...


Answer:

You should take a look at my intakes from when I was gaining weight. I definitely didn’t only eat healthy. I had donuts and bagels and cake and chocolate and sweets and cheese pizza, etc. If you want a bowl of cereal, GET A BOWL OF CEREAL. I promise you that it won’t make you unhealthy. 
And are you sure you don’t like having donuts and bagels? Or is it your eating disorder that is uncomfortable with them?
When you are in recovery it’s very, very important to challenge your eating disorder constantly so you can show it that you are stronger.
I don’t want to go the rest of my life constantly worrying about what I eat and what is and isn’t “ok” to eat. Should food be a priority? Yes, definitely. But it shouldn’t be everything. It shouldn’t be the reason you can’t go out and enjoy yourself.
Please challenge yourself and eat the foods you are scared of. The fear and anxiety won’t last forever!

— 1 month ago with 1 note
counting-sheep-again asked: When you get this, post five things you like about yourself then pass it on to your 10 favorite followers


Answer:

1. I like how much I now care about my own health and my well being. I make it a priority to move and eat well. 
2. I love my hair and how strong and soft it is.
3. I like how passionate I am about veganism and animal rights.
4. I like that I never judge anyone, no matter what.
5. I like that I’m the perfect combination of sexy and cute(you won’t understand this unless you’ve seen the movie)

— 1 month ago with 6 notes
Anonymous asked: Any ideas for a good healthy vegan lunch!? I'm running out of ideas and find myself eating the same things :(


Answer:

I have loads!
Soup, sandwiches, nachos(ok maybe not the healthiest but they’re yummy so who cares), oatmeal if you’re that kind of person(I am), lots of fruit with peanut butter. pesto pasta or pasta with a tomato sauce, falafels, nut roast, lentil bake, lasagna(I have a recipe for a really great raw lasagna on my other blog which is super healthy), vegetable korma(you can make it for dinner and have leftovers for lunch), mac and cheese(also have a recipe for this on my other blog). YOU CAN HAVE ANYTHING YOU WANT. 
I hope this helped! If you want more suggestions you can message me on my other blog and I’ll help you out. :)

— 1 month ago with 6 notes
Anonymous asked: I am very confused right now. Im in recovery for my ed and I have been eating more. I do exercise but now because I feel I have to but because I enjoy reading and walking. Anywho, I weighed myself about a few weeks to a month ago and then I weighed myself tonight after I ate my snack( half a bag of granola :) it was good) and before my shower. IVE LOST WEIGHT!! I am so confused on why I have not gained. I have been eating more:(


Answer:

DAT MEANS YOU NEED TO EAT EVEN MOAR
Recovery can really speed up your metabolism and you need to eat as much as you can to restore your health. Please make an effort to eat more and move less. You can do it!!

— 1 month ago with 3 notes
Anonymous asked: Når jeg læser dine indlæg får jeg lyst til at løbe ud af døren med soyais og gode film og tage toget direkte til Fyn og bare holde om dig og ae dit hår og lade dig komme ud med alle de mørke tanker, du holder inde indtil de flyder over. Søde Charlotte, du er stærk og du er nået så langt. Nogle gange må du gerne sætte ord på dine ED tanker før de bliver en realitet - få dem ud af systemet og kom videre, du fortjener så meget bedre end at sidde lænet ind over toilettet og græde og hade dig selv


Answer:

- når der er absolut intet ved dig at hade. Vid at du er det værd og hvis der er tider, du ikke orker at kæmpe for dig selv, prøv at finde motivation i tanken om, at det også betyder noget for os andre, at du får det bedre. Det er vigtigt for mig og flere af dine følgere. Du er det hele værd.

Åh nej, vær sød ikke at tage til Fyn, så kan jeg ikke nyde isen med dig!(hehe jeg bor i Jylland)
Tusind, tusind tak. Det betyder uendelig meget for mig, at jeg har så meget støtte.xxxx

— 1 month ago with 2 notes
Anonymous asked: I'm so sorry that you're struggling baby :( much love, xx


Answer:

Love xxxx

— 1 month ago with 2 notes
Anonymous asked: A second snack won't kill you. Legit, don't stress over it young lady. You are actually still recovering so eat up and ENJOY. !!! XX


Answer:

Thank you beautiful.xx

— 1 month ago with 1 note
Anonymous asked: Going on 8 cinnamon rolls for the day? Too many? Nope, sorry I just looked up the health benefits and APPARENTLY they'll make me fat. Well, they better! :) Thank you for helping me to realize I need to give my body what it wants sometimes, even if it's not the healthiest.


Answer:

HELL TO THE YEAH YOU GO SUNFLOWER

— 1 month ago with 8 notes